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REAL WOMEN ON THE GO: OUR FUTURE WORK

A Talk by C. Gwendolyn Landolt
National Vice President
REAL Women of Canada

Summary by: Lorraine McNamara
Past President REAL Women of Canada

In her talk on the role of REAL Women of Canada, Gwen Landolt provided insight into the difficulties REAL Women faced in the past, and how the situation has changed in recent years. She stressed the importance of continuing to fight for the family in Canada.

Nobody asked me for my opinion!

By 1983 radical feminist groups were receiving significant government funding, based on their claim to speak for “all Canadian women”. They would declare, “The women of Canada demand….” and the government would respond. Gwen’s indignant response was, “Who are these women daring to represent all Canadian women? Nobody asked me for my opinion!” There had to be an alternative voice.

With Gwen at the helm, REAL Women was started by just seven concerned women in Toronto. Our organization has since grown to be a national women’s organization, with provincial chapters as well as several local city chapters. It is the alternative voice of women, spearheading the battle for the promotion and protection of family life.

We knew the radical feminists were heavily funded by the Women’s Program, Secretary of State, and although in principle we did not agree with funding for special interest groups, we believed that in order to participate in the political arena, we must also apply for government funding. However, back in 1983 – 1984 REAL Women could not even get an application form, from the Status of Women! It was not until we phoned the Women’s Program, Secretary of State, and identified ourselves as a new group of women called, the “National Association of Lesbian Mothers”, that an application form immediately was sent to us – together with a welcoming note! (We’ve preserved the note for posterity)

After numerous complaints to the Status of Women and friendly MPs, the Conservative government at that time did grudgingly give some very small grants – nothing in comparison to that which was doled out to the feminist organizations. All grants to REAL Women were suspended by the Status of Women in 1996.

REAL Women is not for turning!

REAL Women of Canada for several years was treated with disdain and barely tolerated by successive Liberal governments, its officials, and the media. We were described as “women who were against” women’s issues, never described as an alternative voice for women. Fortunately, we are not easily intimidated or pushed around. As former British Prime Minister, Margaret Thatcher once famously said, “This lady is not for turning”. Nor is REAL Women!

We have always been steadfast in our beliefs and positions. Because of our firm stance we have gained respect and acknowledgment over time from the government (even Liberal ones!) and the media. Now, when we write letters, put out press releases and make presentations to government committees, we are taken seriously. Nearly every day the Toronto or Ottawa offices are contacted by the media for interviews. It is now recognized that REAL Women is the voice of conservative pro-family women in Canada and that our positions are well researched and articulate – so it is difficult to ignore us.

We cannot expect miracles.

The new Conservative government is planning to put forward some good legislation. Since 2002 the Conservatives have been making it a priority to raise the age of consent from 14 to 16 (Canada’s age of consent is the lowest in the western world). It has already introduced a bill to this effect (See Conservatives To Raise Age of Consent). The child pornography law will be changed to remove the excuse of “artistic merit” as a defence. (Why should an artist be protected from responsibility for the harm he or she has caused?). Criminal sentences will be strengthened, and marijuana and prostitution will not be de-criminalized, as had been planned by the former Liberal government.

Gwen warned, however, that we probably cannot expect that there will be any drastic changes in funding for special interest groups, despite the blatantly unfair situation. In a minority situation, there is only so much this Conservative government can do and we do not want the media to jump all over the government at this time on highly controversial issues. We must be rational and try to assist this government to reach a majority in the next election. There is no guarantee that this will happen, despite the favourable polls, so it is crucial that pro-family Canadians become involved in politics to ensure our candidates get nominated and elected.

Same-sex marriage legislation must be properly analyzed!

Presently, the major concern to be addressed is the same-sex marriage issue which will be before Parliament this fall. Gwen reminded the conference participants how the same-sex marriage legislation was rammed through Parliament last June in a shockingly undemocratic manner. The 39 Liberal cabinet ministers and the 19 members of the NDP Caucus were ordered to vote for the bill, thus denying their constituents any say on the issue. No amendments were permitted and closure was imposed to shut down the debate. No consideration was made of the effects of the legislation on children. In this regard, it is significant that the National Assembly in France on January 26, 2006 tabled a report which rejected same-sex marriage because it was not in the best interest of children.

REAL Women is still in the forefront!

Although the times are still difficult, they are somewhat easier than in the past as the Canadian public has become generally more conservative to-day. The present Conservative government at least listens, even if it cannot do as much as it would like to do. REAL Women continues to analyze legislation and lobby the government. It is important however, that others do so as well. We must let our pro-family Members of Parliament know of our concerns, and we must become involved in the next federal election campaign. It is important also that local newspapers receive letters supporting pro-family issues, because they often receive a great many letters from well-organized groups, such as day-care lobbyists or homosexual rights activists, who spring into action whenever their issues are raised. E-mail communications and petitions are not nearly as effective as letters. Best of all, make a personal visit to your Member of Parliament. REAL Women will do everything it can to provide you with any background information you may require.

In conclusion, Gwen confirmed that REAL Women of Canada has always been in the forefront in the political and legal battles of the day. She vowed that we will continue to carry on the battle for the family for many years to come. REAL Women never give up!


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