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REAL WOMEN'S BOOTH AT THE WOLD CONGRESS OF FAMILIES IV WARSAW, POLAND
MAY, 2007

By Doris Davarsi
President
British Columbia Chapter
REAL Women of Canada

REAL Women was one of the sponsors of the World Congress of Families IV held in Warsaw on May 11-13, 2007. As a result, we were alloted space to set up a booth during the Congress. My husband and I had planned to attend the Congress, so we agreed to look after REAL Women's table.

On our arrival in Warsaw, we immediately went to the Palace of Culture and Science to set up the REAL Women's booth. I was full of energy and also had the able help of my husband, a REAL man, in organizing the booth. We were so early, that there was a crew hammering away, still setting up other booths. Our booth, however, was ready for us and we proudly set out our material and hung up our REAL Women of Canada banner. We were ready for action!

Friday morning I was at my booth early, ready to go. People began to stroll through the exhibitors' area. A mix of languages could be heard, young and not so young mingling, laughing, chatting, and admiring the material displayed. The atmosphere was uplifting and encouraging. What a wonder to behold, thousands of people gathering from all over the world and all of us with the same concerns. It is exhilarating to know that there are so many who share the values which are so often disparaged in Canada. However, here we were in the midst of a gathering from all around the globe and it was an incredible feeling to be able to participate and be part of this great event.

When people walked by I would call out a hearty "dzien dobry" (good morning in Polish which took me a while to figure out how to pronounce). If no answer was forthcoming, I would then move to Good Morning, Guten Morgen, Bonjour, and at that, my good mornings ran out. Usually, by that time, the person would chuckle and come over. The first thing everyone would usually ask was what REAL stood for. Then I had to explain who we were and what our mandate was. Often men took one look at our banner and then moved to other booths. I didn't let them get away that easily, though, and would call out to them to come back. I always had to explain that we were a women's organization but we like men and we work with them and are in no way against them. Some people stopped at our booth, however, because they thought the name was intriguing. There was occasionally someone who would walk up to me with the finger wagging, tsk, tsking and saying, "You Canadians, are you all nuts up there?" They were all good-hearted scoldings and I assured them that REAL Women was not part of the nutty decisions but that we were fighting them fiercely. People from Eastern Europe had little knowledge of what was happening in Canada and when I explained to them some of the issues that we had been involved in, the last one the three-parent case, they were absolutely horrified.

Many people spoke English but I also had the opportunity to chat both in German and French, which I speak. With some people the conversation was conducted in a mix of languages and the use of hands, which was challenging but also lots of fun. Of course, the first question was always "Who or what is REAL Women?"

Many Polish people did not speak English and this made things very difficult. However, I was rescued by a young Polish woman who came to the REAL Women booth on the Friday morning, introducing herself as Joanna Pyzel. She is an architect and she was so interested in REAL Women that she stayed with me for a long time. She grabbed every Polish speaking person and explained to him or her about REAL Women and had them sign the Petition of the Citizens of the World to the Canadian government opposing legalization of same-sex marriage. Joanna managed to have everyone sign the Petition and several people took extra copies to have their friends and families sign. Joanna came back again in the afternoon, continuing to explain to people about REAL Women and asking them to sign the Petition. Joanna spent so much time at our booth that I finally declared her an honorary member of REAL Women! She eventually took several copies of the Petition and she is still collecting signatures to this day.

One young woman came by our booth on Saturday afternoon. She was with the Polish YWCA and wanted to know all about REAL Women. Considering that we are a women's organization she felt we would have much in common. I had to inquire cautiously into the Polish YWCA philosophy and then explained to her that the Canadian version was anything but Christian. She assured me that in Poland the YWCA still functioned according to its Christian roots. I was delighted to hear that.

Throughout the days at the Congress, I switched between attending sessions and manning (oops, womaning) the booth, meeting a wide variety of individuals, from priests to lawyers, from homemakers to politicians to executive directors of pro-family organizations. I also met journalists, who were extremely interested in the work REAL Women is doing and asked to be kept informed. The material in my suitcase was gone very quickly, as were the pens with the REAL Women logo.

REAL Women's reaching out beyond the borders of Canada and participating at the World Congress was not only a great experience but also highly beneficial as we have made and sustained contacts all over the world. We can achieve so much more when we work with others all around the world and an event such as this Congress is one venue that helps us connect with others.

I hope I will see many of you at the next World Congress of Families. The location and date is to be determined later. So far, proposals have been received from Latvia, Ireland, France and Mexico to hold the Congress in their countries. We hope you will be on the look-out for REAL Women's booth as we will be sure to be there!


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